Long-Term vs. Short-Term Orientation

 In this week’s lesson, we explored the Hofstede cultural dimension of Long-Term vs. Short-Term Orientation, especially in the context of romantic relationships in Japan. Japan is known for its strong Long-Term Orientation, and this is evident in how relationships are approached, which are typically slow, serious, and often with the long-term goal of marriage. The concept of “kokuhaku” (confession of love) formalises the start of a relationship and signals a committed path forward, which is very different from what I’m used to. 

In my own dating experience, this style feels quite distant. I come from a culture where dating is more casual, spontaneous, and emotionally open from the start. For me, dating should be about enjoying the moment, discovering someone’s personality in a relaxed way, and letting things grow naturally, without too much structure or pressure. That’s why I find the Japanese approach quite difficult to relate to. 

While I respect the values behind the Japanese method, like patience, respect, and long-term thinking, I don’t see myself adapting to it. I believe people should stay true to their way of connecting with others. For me, love should be free-flowing, not planned out like a contract. So, although I enjoy learning about cultural differences, I’d rather not change who I am when it comes to romance.

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