Long-Term vs. Short-Term Orientation
In this week’s lesson, we explored the Hofstede cultural dimension of Long-Term vs. Short-Term Orientation, especially in the context of romantic relationships in Japan. Japan is known for its strong Long-Term Orientation, and this is evident in how relationships are approached, which are typically slow, serious, and often with the long-term goal of marriage. The concept of “kokuhaku” (confession of love) formalises the start of a relationship and signals a committed path forward, which is very different from what I’m used to. In my own dating experience, this style feels quite distant. I come from a culture where dating is more casual, spontaneous, and emotionally open from the start. For me, dating should be about enjoying the moment, discovering someone’s personality in a relaxed way, and letting things grow naturally, without too much structure or pressure. That’s why I find the Japanese approach quite difficult to relate to. While I respect the values behind the J...